There is a silly notion I have carried around my whole life that I can be a pro before I’m a rookie. The impatient side of me would like to skip steps 1, 2 and 3 and jump right into 4. Like getting out of the shower and having perfectly blown out hair. Needless to say I have been unsuccessful and this silly notion has caused me much anxiety over the years. The advice given to me time and time again has been, take baby steps, take it one project at a time, it doesn’t need t

“Aaaaaahhhhhhh! This article sounds like shit! DELETE…..I still hate it….I suck at writing! DELETE! Why am I even trying to write a blog, I’m not a writer! AUGH!” Hi, my name is Sabrina and I suffer from perfectionism: “Sabrina you know better, what’s wrong with you!”, “The cookies could have been better if I just…”, “How does Pinterest make it look so easy?!”. Can anyone out there relate? Sign of mania: I feel everything important, to me, needs to be perfect! My family ha

This past year has challenged me to take a close look at unhealthy habits and leading me to implement new ways of living and thinking. Implementing change isn’t anything new I find that I challenge myself constantly. However this year with a number of lessons learned and still being learned there is one I hope to always remember, that is, transformation doesn’t have to be painful. I’ll admit, some changes were easy to make, others came with a lot of resistance. However, w

Where does your mind go when you are uncomfortable? Paying attention to our thoughts when fear and discomfort set in is a great way to understand how we cope with fear. Who do you think about? Where does your mind go? Do you fantasize? Pay attention to what comes up for you and maybe keep a journal or notepad handy. When moments of discomfort come up jot down how you react. Write it down before you have a chance to forget. If you notice that you are pushing the discomfort a

When you calmly float on your back in the water, have you ever noticed how your body naturally stays at the surface? Yet, the second you decide to resist, and begin flailing or churning to keep yourself afloat, you inevitably sink? Lying on your back, belly up and vulnerable and giving way to the water is technically a form of surrender. Alternatively, you may opt to kick, scream, and fight the water, but all you will accomplish is exhausting yourself, and will eventually su

Day 7 of the From Snow to Glow Movement closed our first week with this note. I was reminded of a wonderful analogy the other day that can be applied to this week’s Spring Clean Theme. Detoxifying our lives can feel great but it also comes with the inevitable purging of gook or garbage that no longer serves us. As we mature emotionally it is common to grieve. A part of which we once associated ourselves with dies as we make change. That is why it can be so difficult to break

Starting March 15, 2014 Go From Snow to Glow! Will you join the movement? Ignite your inner light & get your glow on! I live in Detroit and this winter has definitely proven itself. As much as I appreciate the white blankets of snow, weekend ski trips, snow mobiles and ice fishing (just kidding on the ice fishing) by this point in the season I’m not feeling bright! I become sluggish, stir crazy and I'm dreaming about warm sun on my shoulders! If you feel the same, I have a p